A Hearth Secret (or HS) is something used by other players to: see your name, have you on their Kin List, and travel to your hearth fire upon character creation.
Telling your secret[]
It is recommended, to not tell your Hearth Secret to anyone publicly, try to disclose this in private, and only if you trust the person you are telling it to.
Only set your Hearth Secret when[]
You have a friend that's coming to join you.
Adding a friend or someone as kin.
Hearth Secret Stairs[]
If you make a new character and input an already used hearth secret a set of stairs will open up allowing you to start near them.